I don’t mean to
gloat but I’m not missin’ the rain and dismal days of the
GREAT NORTH-WET!!! It has been beautiful here, and I’m
starting my first Christmas Season in the southwest. One
thing I’m already likin’ is that since we’re surrounded with
old folks, us included, people pretty much stick to the
lovely OLD traditions of the time in which we were raised.
I’ve seen only one house that had Christmas decorations up
before Thanksgiving. Of course, the stores were all
decorated and playing jolly holiday tunes pre-turkey day but
I try to ignore them. I’ve been down here after Thanksgiving
in the past and it is a real
experience
in December to see cactus instead of the trees decorated in
lights. Folks down here do a wonderful job of creating a
Christmas wonderland in their yards—minus the snow and cold
of my youth in eastern Washington State—not the rainy, nasty
west coast of the state where I spent thirty-three years as
an adult because of my husband’s work. No offense to you
coastal dwellers, but geeze, my feet never grew webbing, and
I never got used to the continual dampness. Coming from four
strong seasons and then having to trudge west over the North
Cascades to my destiny—kickin’ and screamin’ to no avail—was
not easy. In the Methow Valley, where I hail from, we had
hot dry summers, beautiful falls, cold snowy winters, and
green, green springs. Guess that’s why the dryness of this
southwest territory makes me feel much more at home than I
ever did on Camano Island.
Thank
God we have my in-laws—who I love—down here, and some of my
mother-in-law’s family to help us celebrate this year since
I may get a wee bit homesick for our family Christmas
celebration up north without my parents, kids, and grandkids
with us. Next year they’ve promised to all come down AFTER
we have the remodeling finished on the house. Right now, I
wouldn’t be ready for company anyway. I’m getting in the
spirit though. The other day, I bought a new fake tree with
lights already strung—does my darlin’ husband think that’s
nifty—It’s been a fight every year to get the lights just
the way I want them. I also have dug out enough Christmas
things from storage to decorate the house adequately for
this first year.
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REMINISCING: Is it just that old age is creeping up on
me—at a rapid pace, or do all adults wish time had stood
still at around eight years of age when preparations for
Christ’s Day were so exciting in those four weeks after
Thanksgiving, we’d almost bust? School, church, and home
events were all crammed into a time of wonderment for
children and adults alike. It was a time when even colorful
outside lights showing through the deep white of a heavy
snow gave your heart a feeling of peace and serenity.
It
seems like yesterday when our little town would be bustling
with excitement as huge red bells and wreaths were hung on
several long strings of giant, green garland across our main
street, and merriment and well wishes were felt and spoken
as we passed. We were kept busy with practicing our part in
the school play and choir at church, going on caroling
parties, and helping Mama with the extra work and cooking it
took to have a great celebration each and every year.
The snow was coming down on a regular basis by Thanksgiving,
and sleigh riding excursions and ice-skating had to be
worked into our busy schedule too. And skiing was BIG in the
mountains surrounding us. A bus took adults and kids to the
ski hill every Saturday for a pittance. A towrope for the
little ones, and chairs for older kids and adults would be
waiting for our arrival with smoky engines grinding away to
get everyone safely to the top so we could then zigzag
through the pines on a more dangerous and thrilling trip
down the slopes. Then back to the chalet for hot cocoa to
warm one’s innards and shake off the powdery snow. Sitting
near a crackling fire after a fun day in the snow still
warms my heart even in memory.
Christmas’ in the
valley would be with friends and family at our house or at
my aunt’s in town. My maternal grandparents, aunts and
uncles, and lots of cousins would be in attendance, and we
would have such great times. We girls loved to show off our
new baby-dolls, and the boys usually had Tonka trucks or toy
guns and holsters—guaranteed to be true replicas of Roy
Rogers or Gene Autry. Always, there were new slipper socks,
robes, knitted neck scarves, etc. from our grandparents—who
were more practical in their gift giving.
We’d hurry through a big afternoon dinner, then rush outside
to try out new sleds or BB guns. There was always enough
excitement to go around even among the adults who needed to
relax and catch up on family gossip.
Many Christmas’, we
would literally travel over the meadow and through the woods
to spend a week with my paternal grandparent’s on the farm.
It took an average of four hours for this trip—if not held
up by snows blowing into the low spots in the road that cut
straight through the wheat fields of eastern Washington and
often settled into ten-foot drifts. Snowplows would have to
come to the rescue and dig through these giant piles to keep
traffic flowing on the holidays. We’d sing along to
Christmas songs on the radio all the way whether stranded or
not. My favorites were and still are, songs sung by Gene
Autry or Eddie Arnold.
We’d finally reach the snowy lane leading to our
grandparent’s old farmhouse, and see lights strung along the
house eaves and on the tree in the window reflecting
beautifully into the night as we drew closer. I’d get so
excited I’d have a lump in my throat.
When the door was flung open, the warmth of the house and
smells of Granny’s wonderful food baking in her old wood
stove would waft across us like pure love—and I guess it
was. They always had a big tree Gramps had cut in the
backwoods of their property—not decorated in grand style
like today, but covered in bright lights and tinsel, and
plenty of fat, silver garland wrapped ‘round and ‘round.
When Christmas Day finally arrived—I say finally because
each day of waiting seemed an eternity in our young
minds—all seemed well with the world as we ate a big country
breakfast, then opened our gifts, and filled our tummies
with candies, nuts and oranges. Remember those red, white,
and green swirled hard-candies that were popular in the
fifties? It took a while for those to melt in your mouth,
right?
We kids thought the whole idea of Christmas was something
mystical, from the story of Christ’s birth, right down to
the glittering lights and gifts under the tree. It all made
great Christmas memories.
Y’all have a great
Christmas now, ya hear? And don’t forget, “Christ is the
Reason for the Season!”
Here are a couple of poems to bring back more Christmas
memories…
Country Ramblin's at
Christmas time Written by
Granny Tam